The best place to start is with the self - to love oneself no matter where you've come from, what you've been through, mistakes you've made...as sometimes you might just be all you've got. It's also important to make sure you're able to fill your own cup to keep your self esteem & self worth in a healthy place. This enables you to approach relationships with others in a healthy and more balanced way, from a place of havingness instead of lack so you won't be compelled to depend on others for the love you deserve.
Operating from a healthy heart space promotes greater discernment in choosing who you allow in your space, helping you to focus on what adds to the joy you already provide yourself, improving the chances that you'll find someone who meets you energetically & who is a true, loving counterpart in every way.
- Rose Quartz
- Mangano (Pink) Calcite
- Green Aventurine
- Pink Tourmaline in Quartz
Rose Quartz ♡
Rose Quartz, has a calming, loving, and gentle presence, as it is the quintessential stone of love. It radiates unconditional love, and is the perfect stone to have in every room of your home. Resonating with the element of Water and connected to the Heart Chakra, Rose Quartz provides a soothing, healing energy that allows you to work through and heal traumatic issues stored in your heart center at a loving, gentle pace. Working with this stone will inspire you to open your heart & believe in the power of love.
Sleep with a Rose Quartz tumble under your pillow to stimulate healing & restoration while you sleep, or meditate with one on your Heart Chakra to process past hurts and restore your ability to love again.
Water Element, 4th (Heart) Chakra, Love, Gentleness, Emotional Healing.
Mangano Calcite ♡
The pink color in Mangano Calcite comes from the presence of Manganese, and the only major source for these crystals is Peru. The electromagnetic field of the heart connects one with the fullness of the Universe, and Mangano calcite supports a state of gratitude and equilibrium within the heart space. Its vibration amplifies and stabilizes the heart's energy field, bringing more awareness to the space and everything it touches. This can manifest as greater empathy and perception of others' emotional status. Mangano Calcite is powerful enough to support empathic connections over distance and time and is particularly useful in distance healing work.
Fire Element, 4th (Heart) Chakra, Well-Being, Wholeness, Health, Empathy, and Unconditional Love.
Malachite is one of the most protective stones out there. It permeates the auric field with positive vibrations and strengthens one's natural energetic shell, helping to screen out nefarious, unwelcome vibes. It also emanates the healthiest energy pattern for the heart, both the emotional heart and the organ itself, though harmonizing the Heart Chakra. It inspires positivity and helps one avoid taking on the emotional baggage of others. The Solar Plexus Chakra is also stimulated by Malachite, enhancing willpower and and self-control. It's also said to be protective in all types of travel, especially air travel.
Fire Element: 3rd (Solar Plexus) and 4th (Heart) Chakras; Enlightened Leadership, Creativity, Confidence, Protection, and a Healed Heart.
Unakite is technically a Jasper, which is a form of Quartz, and it is a great stone to have when focused on eliminating bad habits and purging toxic energy of all forms within the energetic and physical body. Its energy supports the unearthing and releasing of emotional wounds, while minimizing the shock and trauma involved. Unakite is also great for aligning all energetic bodies of the self with the physical body & with one another, facilitating attunement with higher dimensions. Patience and persistence are also supported by Unakite.
Earth Element; All Chakras - especially the 4th (Heart); Healing, Balance, Release of Bad Habits, Higher Attunement, Patience, Persistence.
Green Aventurine ♡
Green Aventurine is a member of the Quartz family, and has a calming presence, and is actually known as the stone of good luck. Its energy cultivates optimism and a desire for new experiences. Connected to the Heart Chakra, this stone heals and guides one through tumultuous, chaotic situations with a sense of calm, focus, and perseverance.
Water & Earth Elements; 4th (Heart) Chakra: Vitality, Growth, Confidence, Good Luck, Prosperity.
Pink Tourmaline in Quartz ♡
Pink Tourmaline is at the top of the list when it comes to heart healing gemstones. Add a little Quartz matrix & that A lister is now magnified & amplified. This stone will help with some serious heart healing work & clearing of negativity / false beliefs that are holding you back from receiving the love you deserve from yourself and others. It is a calming force for those working through a challenging situation & may help calm charged emotions.
Water Element, Heart Chakra (4th), Self Love, Emotional Healing, Removing Emotional Blocks & Negativity, Calming & Relaxing in Volatile Situations.
Ajoite is a blue-green Copper Silicate material that is often found in Quartz. It is named after Ajo, Arizona, where it was first identified. The energies of Ajoite are soothing, calming, and perfect for emotional healing work. It is believed to transmute negative energy into positive energy, and helps relieve sadness. Additionally, it is supportive of feminine empowerment and it also awakens the Throat Chakra.
Ajoite's vibrations are sweet, gentle, and loving, and can help clear the heart space of sadness, longing. It also cleanses negativity from thoughts, helping one align with the energy of love, to lift one's vibration. Also clearing for the Throat Chakra, it inspires and assists in communicating one's deepest inner truth.
Storm Element; 4th (Heart) Chakra, 5th (Throat) Chakra, 6th (Third Eye) Chakra, 7th (Crown) Chakra, Etheric Chakra (above the head); Love, Healing, Emotional Support, Goddess and Angelic Connections.
Epidote's vibration powerfully attracts abundance & increase that's in line with one’s highest good. If your intentions are to attract love & positivity, it will magnify them. Similarly, if your mind is constantly clouded with negativity, it will swiftly amplify it to a breaking point when the universe simply puts you in a situation that forces you to course-correct back toward your highest good (vibes of The Tower tarot card).
The energies of this stone will be strongly dialed in to whatever you’re putting out, but regardless, the bottom line is that they will help you move toward your highest good at a faster pace. Perfect for those looking to make massive changes and those who have to do some heavy lifting in their personal healing work.
Earth & Water Elements, All Chakras, especially the 4th (Heart), Breakthroughs, Release, Attraction, Growth.
Lepidolite is helpful with calming frayed nerves, helping one let go of stress and worries. It is a great friend to have around when life is most challenging, when you're going through a lot of changes, or when you're dealing with angry people. A stone of serenity, it encourages responding to hostility with peaceful action to diffuse the situation. It can help with physical grace and self-consciousness too.
Lepidolite is also known as a stone of spiritual purification, and when used in meditation, it can help clear blocked energies in any of the chakras.
Water Element, All Chakras - Especially the 4th (Heart) and 3rd (Third Eye) Chakras, Emotional Healing, Balance, Purification, Serenity, Relaxation, Stress Relief